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Remembering Joe Paterno

Joe Paterno has died at age 85. He leaves behind an immense, yet immeasurable legacy. The tiny cow college he came to in 1950 has blossomed into a world class research and academic institution, partially built on the name brand established by Paterno's football teams. He and his wife, Sue, raised millions of dollars for Penn State and a vast array of charitable organizations. A massive, five-story addition to the campus library bears his name thanks to a multi-million dollar donation to Penn State. In the modern football factory world, his players graduated at a rate far beyond that of nearly all other programs. In the staid bureaucracy of college football, he urged and achieved reform.

Behind Joe Paterno's Beaver Stadium statue are the words, "Educator, Coach, Humanitarian." They really could have been arranged in any order. Yes, he won a few football games, and the grand scope of Paterno's educational and humanitarian achievements was not possible without his blossoming football program. It not only changed the lives of those who passed through it, but also of those who were just lucky enough to be around it for few hours on a Saturday afternoon. It brought together people of all types, forging friendships that otherwise never would have existed. It made us feel bigger than we actually were. Paterno believed that his players could succeed on the field and in the classroom. When ordinary students could overcome their starstruck feelings to say hello, Paterno would ask if they were studying and going to class. He believed in all of us, whether we knew it or not.

There are some people that, for whatever reason, never seem like they could ever die. The last time I felt like this, Fred "Mister" Rogers had died in 2003. I was 28 years old, just slightly past my days of watching PBS children's programming. Yet, I never considered a world without Mister Rogers walking through the front door with his huge smile, singing "won't you be my neighbor?", and changing into his cardigan and sneakers. This would happen forever, regardless of the year on the calendar or whether I was sitting in front of the television. It was constant, comfortable, and all that millions of us had ever known.

Joe Paterno would always be there for us too, as an unlikely combination of Fred Rogers and fellow Brooklynite Vince Lombardi. His hair would always be dark and his eyeglasses comically thick. He would run out the tunnel for roughly a dozen Saturdays each autumn, wearing a tie, black shoes, and rolled up khaki pants. Paterno would inevitably show up for spring practices, still looking 20 years younger than his actual age and happily shooting down frivolous media questions like clay pigeons. This had to happen because it had always happened. Just like Fred Rogers, Paterno's presence was reassuring even when times were bad, just like Mr. Rogers' trademark song and cardigan. It was all we had ever known, and a world without him seemed incomprehensible.

Paterno's wisdom, charity, and success -- these are the things that will be remembered. The scandal associated with Jerry Sandusky will remain a murky, dark chapter in an expansive 61-year career and life spent doing so much good for so many people in Happy Valley and beyond. However, this is a day to celebrate, and perhaps even be jealous of a life exquisitely lived on its own terms. A young man from Brooklyn made a choice in 1950 to be a poorly paid assistant coach at a tiny outpost in central Pennsylvania. The course of a university and the lives of millions became undeniably richer for his decision, and regardless of the last few months, Joe Paterno left our little corner of the world an infinitely better place than he found it.

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Good stuff

Well played, sir.

Man, I am going to miss him….. Tough thing to say about someone I have never met.

I got to shake his hand once.

I couldn’t say a word.

the only words I managed

as I was running beside his Chevy S10 escort vehicle coming from Football’s Eve was “Thank You”

Knew who this was right away...I physically ran into Joe in a hotel in Louisville, KY years ago!
Well said

An inevitable day that we all wished would never come.

The Mr. Rodgers analogy was spot on

Two of the nicest men ever

Well written

Could not have said it better. Truly a wonderful man.

JOE PATERNO:

Part of this http://espn.go.com/college-football/story/_/id/7487990/joe-paterno-penn-state-legacy-more-scandal I’d like to place highlight here:

Yet a legion of men, who know him much better than any of his critics, continues to defend him. Some are gray of hair and round of stomach, others are younger than Paterno’s five children. All of them wore blue and white. They arose to stand by his side when Paterno no longer could stand up for himself. Paterno was the coach who molded them. He instilled a beacon of light to guide them in their lives. He was the man who made them men.
THE MAN! IS OUR JOE! We are all so blessed to have known/been a partof/share in this truly inspirational Legacy! We Are … PENN STATE !!

Where are those things
I meant

tissues

finally, THANKS

for clearing up the meaning of * Our hankies are in the dryer. You are welcome to all you can use as soon as they are done. VIRTUAL HUG

I was at the base of the mountain in Park City

watching my 17-year-old daughter ski, reading it on the blackberry, and had a mobile device fail… Luckily nobody was watching the old guy on the bench tear up.

Very well said.

We Are

PENN STATE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Listening to Coach K's comments now.

Dammit – now I may have to be a Duke basketball fan.

You'll get over it.
I had the same reaction.

Coach K was spot on with his statements in the interview and alluded to media treatment of Joe. It is good to hear Joe recognized for all the things he did and the man we knew him to be.

Agree

For someone in his situation, an active coach and representative of a school whose finances a partly tied to having good relations with ESPN…he basically cruxified the entire media, including ESPN in particular, and the PSU administration. I couldn’t have been more impressed with Coach K’s guts and honesty.

Coach K is respected at Duke, but not loved

the way we love JoePa. Just the same, I am sending K an e-mail tomorrow, thanking him for his words about Joe.

84, PM,

please come see

Could you please post Coach K's email address?

TIA

Scooter, 84 will post tomorrow. Or you can send your email to him.

His email is in his profile. (PSU_Lions_84’s Wife)

dont call him scooter! loljk
mea culpa! mea culpa!

my bad ;}

Missed it

can anybody sum up what he said??

I linked it in a fanshot
Please post again here. (Todd's)

Others are asking elsewhere and I haven’t been able to locate fanshot. many thanks.

Nothing gets to my PSU/Paterno emotions more than this video has over the past few years

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CQDlaWFeilE

Just thought I’d share it here.

Agree – one of my faves.

It is so dusty in here
who is...

that number 7 QB at the end? Sorry it didn’t work out Pat…

We are all better for having been in his orbit.

Thanks for everything, Joe. You will be loved and missed by Nittany Nation, always.

Sorry Joe but what you wanted written cannot be...

You didn’t just make Penn State a better place, you made the WORLD a better place.

I will remember..

How I would meet him on campus and he would stop, say hi and ask how my classes were going
Being chased off the practice field by Joe behind the old Nittany dorms
Shaking his hand in front of Beaver Stadium after the big win against OSU in 1978
But mostly I will remember the pride he instilled in us for being something different
We Are Penn State!

Not to start anything

But Penn Staters standing vigil around the statue are not doing us justice. They’re laughing on their cell phones, milling around with smirks, kinda like they have an inkling of something important but don’t quite get it.

^ This, to infinity and beyond.
Bought this this morning before I knew

http://www.lions-pride.com/store/COACH!MAIRS/Penn+State+Coach+Joe+Pa+Print

Never met him either

I used to bike to campus most days from my apartment, and detour past their house just to wave. As someone said earlier, he just felt like a family member that I’d never met. His life and death have affected me in ways I’ll probably never begin to understand. For that, he will have my eternal gratitude. I am a better person for having had him as one of my role models.

my grandpa just told me a story

When he was at school back in the late 50’s, Joe would stop by his fraternity and have a beer with everyone before the game. Just found that to be awesome

Thanks JoePa

Although we never met, you challenged me to become a better person. As Penn Staters, it is now our duty to meet that challenge and carry-on his legacy.

Awaiting Information

Im awaiting information on where and when to make respects. I will host multiple family members/Alumni preparing to make the journey back home since I live the closest.

I hope that the school is prepared because the sheer numbers of people prepared to make the trip is going to be crazy

Thanks for the commentary Chris

Rest in Peace to Joe Paterno. My prayers go out to him and his family.

RIP Joe

My first comment on BSD might as well be one honoring a man of integrity and honor whose legend will stand the test of time.

Goodbye to a Man in Full.

It's pretty much impossible to embellish his life and legacy.

That says it all

Honor, integrity = JOE Paterno legacy

Pure, welcome to BSD!

Paterno meant so much to everyone who believes in college sports as a force for good. I hope his example continues to inspire. I wish that Fitz would have gotten another shot at beating him, but I don’t begrudge JoePa #400 or #408.

Even the kids who arent coming to Penn State know what kind of man Joe was

@CamrenWilliams5
RIP JoePa, it was an honor meeting you and developing a relationship with you. You are THE GREATEST coach ever…on and off the field

between cam and urban's statements today

it’s a little tougher to hate OSU. Not impossible, but tougher

Eh, take a look at 11W under the comments section of the post about Paterno's death and it makes it so easy to go right back to hating them

smh

And the Pgh media - bitter, wrong, and small to the end.

Mr. Paterno was instrumental in getting Penn State — an independent for 106 years — into the Big Ten conference. He also was the driving force behind the cancellation of the football series with rival Pitt, which will resume again in 2016 and ’17.

Read more: http://www.post-gazette.com/pg/12022/1205338-100.stm#ixzz1kEHxbbEp

Completely unnecesssary, uncalled for, and a complete cheap shot.

It's also untrue

The series isn’t resuming. It’s just two games. And Joe was not the reason the series ended. The fact that Pitt isn’t worth playing every year is the reason the series ended.

bunch of douchebags.

Really petty

It’s not clear to me that Pitt really cares that much about the series either. It’s a handful of media that pushes it.

Who wrote that crap? Have we flooded them with emails yet. I feel like someone else needs to take over that job. I’m burned out on it.

Musselman.

But forget the emails. A big part of the reason the Pgh media is so anti-PSU and anti-Joe is because it gets such a reaction. That’s just what they want to sell papers and generate web hits (so they can get more ads). Ignoring them is the best thing to do.

I’ve posted it before and am too lazy to look up the exact numbers, but Pitt went to the Big East in 1982 (and PSU to the Big 10 in 1990…sports in 1993). According to the Pgh media Joe has had a grudge against Pitt since they joined the Big East, yet PSU has played Pitt numerous times since then and are scheduled to play them in a few years – what the heck kind of way is that to hold a grudge???

Woody hays knew how to do it…he would not schedule any schools from Ohio. Never wanted to even give them a chance against the premier program in the state. I’d be ok with PSU doing that, too.

Gary Williams did that at MD too

Didnt want to play any DC area teams.

I’m indifferent. Given the way scheduling and the revenue works, we can only schedule a few noncon games on a one-here/one-there contract. Pitt won’t come here more they we go there – fine they have to make money too – but it really doesnt make sense for us to do a one-and-one with them right now. We need to reserve those slots for games that will get a bigger national audience like Bama or USC. Now with the new Pac10 deal, our flexibility is even less. An occasional series with Pitt is ok, I guess.

We can drop Temple too. It’s mostly PSU fans that come but I went to that game this year. $65 for nosebleed seats and we had to listen to that awful owl screech noise. Not worth it.

plus we almost lost
That too

But in the long run, I expect that to be rare. Temple should play 1-AA. It would make more sense for them.

We should really amp this up.

If playing Pitt is about money, then how about a home-and-home for eternity, but the winner keeps all the gate money?

Pitt is such a pathetic loser I think we could all agree to that.

Pittsburgh could be a great city

It is a great city in many ways. But it’s media is on par with many podunk backwaters. It’s time to move into the 20th century, yinzers.

For Pgh and all of W. Pa time pretty much stopped.....

…around 1975.

It feels like that sometimes
Really well-written Chris
Todd Blackledge

is giving a great interview on ESPN. He said that the BOT and media had a part in all of this and it breaks his heart. Said how much he loves Joe.

todd has a good point

Truth in that

Joe’s legacy had been damaged irreparably, his life’s love had been taken from him. There wasn’t much that he could live for, and often those facing dire medical diagnoses fare better knowing they have a purpose.

RIP Joe.

Worth your time to read:

http://www.statecollege.com/news/columns/guest-column-the-paternos-and-the-penn-state-family-987180/
also has a nice picture of Joe and Sue! Well said by T. Shakely

Great post, sweetheart!
Anyone else watching the B1G special on Paterno right now?
this is pissing me off already

First thing they start with is the fucking scandal

agreed. This seems more a 60 minutes episode.

Then a fitting tribute for someone the day they died.

Yeah, but let's hang on

and hope that it gets better . . . .

yeah

disgusting way to open. Bobby Bowden was surprisingly redeeming. Said he wrote Paterno to apologize for comments in press. Said he was misquoted

I thought that was interesting too

Doesn’t surprise me that the media would twist his words though.

For anyone not watching, he said that his actual statement was that Paterno said it best when he said that with the benefit of hindsight he wished he had done more, but the media just printed “Bowden thinks Paterno should have done more.”

Keith Jackson

doing a pretty good job of defending Joe and his record.

actual people seem respectful

media “personalities” seem to be douches (though I guess that is one type of “personality”, just didn’t think that’s what one would strive for)

The media are the ones who keep going back to the scandal

No one else wants to talk about it, but the hosts keep bringing it up again.

This, a thousand times. The media members have constantly brought up the scandal and tried to press people into commenting on it while most everyone else has focused on who Paterno was and his accomplishments.

It’s actually pretty amazing the stark contrast.

The moment Tom Bradley realized Rece Davis was trying to steer him

And got a very stern resolve in his voice was pretty awesome. Off the record, he’d have probably told Rece to go fuck himself right then.

Seriously, BTN, stop it.

His life wasn’t defined by the scandal. Even though that’s the freshest on everyone’s minds, just STOP IT NOW.

Seriously.

Honor the man, stop trying to make it about more than that.

Any doubts the B1G hates PSU?

Not after watching 20 minutes of this garbage

I just posted a rant in the 'media' thread in the fanposts

I will NEVER forgive them for this. I will not watch anything but Penn State games on this network for as long as I live. FUCK THE BTN!!!

Seriously!!! SHUT THE FUCK UP!!!
They bring in a beat writer from PITTSBURGH!!?!?!?

That’s it, I turned it off. I’ll never listen to those disgusting asshats again.

Ugh this is seriously getting worse as it goes on.
sigh, I really wanted to watch a tribute to JoePa

this is sickening me. Good job at pulling a Laurenaitis, BTN.

Deleted the recording and switched back

to the Giants-49ers game.

Seriously. I turned it on when they were recapping his career and thought it might be good

Then they immediately changed the focus.

Also, the BTN said, with regards to Joe’s actions with the scandal “he turned the information over to his superiors, but other than that he did nothing.” Are you kidding me BTN? What a terrible way to phrase that to make him look worse.

They keep misquoting him too.

He never said “I should have done more.”

back to the NFCCG. eff this noise
Same. The BTN are an embarrassment.

This is not a time to debate this shit. It is a time to pay tribute to Joe.

"he only did what he was supposed to, and what 99.9% of us would have done, but other than that he did nothing"
The True Believer pipe dream goes something like this

Five years from now Spaniers’ memoirs come out and he relates how, to his great regret, he mislead JoePa for years as to the progress of the Sandusky investigation after tiring of Joe’s constant harranging on the subject. Just the look of Joe’s furrowed brow and stony-eyed stare, he says, caused him scores of sleepless nights as he continued to delude the venerable coach so unfaithfully.Yet in the book’s final chapter he insists the governor assured him this was all in the University’s “best interest”.

ESPN, having been purchased from Disney by the now-gazzilionaire Glen Beck in the weeks preceding the publication of Spanier’s shocking expose`, goes on record with a detailed admission of it’s conspiratorial role in attacking JoePa, Penn State, and anything rhyming with Nittany, and goes so far as to suggest they knew some of their information was coming from then-DA Linda Kelly, now serving 15-20 for conspiracy, fraud, and just being a very bad girl.

A 5 year honororiam is conducted on Joe Paterno Field at Beaver Stadium for Coach Paterno in conjunction with the Nittany Lion’s celebration of their 3rd National Championship following a sweep of the innagural 4 game NCAA Division I Paterno Playoff Classic that replaced the BCS in deciding the Div I national champion. Even the media wore white, and the glow from the stadium could be seen from Pittsburgh…

Or something like that……

From your keyboard to

God’s screen, please, 78!!

Lord, please make this dream come true for all of us. Thank you! Amen.

I guess I'm a true believer.

For me, I don’t need to find out that Joe was misled for years. Joe asked McQuery, repeatedly, if he was alright with ‘it.’ He gave McQuery several opportunities to tell him that it wasn’t being handled correctly. What I would like to know is why McQuery never raised Joe’s suspicion. What I really want to know is what Curley and Schultz told Mike AND his father AND Dranov that prevented them from pressing it further. To me, by following up with Mike repeatedly weeks and months later, Joe was already absolved.

Yeah I agree

But unless someone or something spells it out in unmistakable, unquestionable terms….in other words takes absolute blame, no one (media) is going to listen or give a damn. I want to hear someone, I don’t really care who, say publicly, “it wasn’t Joe, it was my doing”.

Ugh!!!

His biggest lesson was that he wished he had done more!?!? Really?

Also, Jim Delany, you do not get to comment on Joe Paterno. STFU!!

Nor do Lackey and the other

boot-licking officials who disgraced our alma mater.

They don't call it

the BigTurd Network for nothing

It's up to us.

As someone noted, WE are Joe’s legacy — let’s live up to the example JoePa set for us.

WE ARE PENN STATE — not those talking heads who admire nothing but their own pictures on the screen.

I never expected ESPN to be more respectable than the BTN.
Don't expect it to last. Just don't.
The BTN really does not understand its audience right now.

Do they think anyone other than Penn State/JoePa fans are going to be watching this “tribute”? Most sports fans are gonna be watching the NFCCG, and others are either not going to care, or not want to watch a tribute to a man they think is a monster. Way to piss off your audience right now.

I just emailed them.

It was not kind. I told them the half of it I could bear to watch disgusted me, that I’ll NEVER watch anything but PSU games on that network again, and that they should issue an apology to the Paternos, Penn State fans, and fans of human decency everywhere.

Is the email address on their site?
Just went to the 'contact us' page on the website.

You’re limited to 50 characters. Make them count.

Their email address format is

FirstName.LastName@btn.com

Mark Silverman is the President
I assume his email is Mark.Silverman@btn.com

Elizabeth Conlisk is the VP of Communications and University Relations
I know her email is Elizabeth.Conlisk@btn.com

I plan on using the communication channels made available to BTN Fan Council members to voice my displeasure.

Good plan

Maybe alao contact somebody at PSU to let them know the BTN butchered it and fans noticed. The BigTen is a membership organization. They have to listen to their members.

I don't want to be pessimistic

today of all days, but the conference has crapped on us since Day One. I will not provide examples or rant further — today . . ..

You can also reach Elizabeth Conlisk by phone at

(312) 665-0726

Well done and

encourage others to do the same. I’m glad they don’t offer BTN here in Virginia even though it deprives me of a few games a year; have heard nothing but negatives about that enterpri$e.

They do offer it in VA

I have it… don’t watch it except when games are on…

Thank you for speaking up for us!
Its just like the shit TheOnion decided to run with earlier

popping off about Doctors informing their superiors about his death tomorrow. I nearly dog cursed out a friend of mine that linked to it, and said she’s entitled to her opinion and it has nothing to do with me. While I may not have played football, I did attend the university, I did run into him once on campus, and while he may not have affected my life personally I am a member of the Penn State family and it affects all of us in the family.

I gave up my cable when the season ended

I’ll sign up again next year.
It’s not a bad way to live. I recommend it.

But I need the cooking channels

to create those yummy casseroles, RJM!

You can probably watch online

Everything is online now.

You kids.

I’m lucky to be able to find my way here . . . .

I posted a link in the fanshots

that you can use to sign Joe’s guestbook and leave a personal message.

Thanks for doing so, 02.

Nice way for us to communicate with the family.

Westboro Church

says they will picket Joe’s funeral.

I’m a Christian, and shouldn’t judge, but Westboro seems to be made up of bigoted haters who do NOT represent Christ’s love and compassion.

I have tons of meetings late this week, but am seriously thinking of driving to SC, esp. if these haters are going to show up. I may need bail money if I do . . .

I got your back on the bail

But is a carry permit issued in Va valid in Pa? I think I may need that.

IDK, 78.

I’m preparing my insanity defense.

Shall I pick you up on my drive from North Carolina?

In all seriousness

am checking schedules and with a friend who has rotary wings available about making the trip, though may be long legs for his helo.

It's an eleven hour drive for me,

altho I’ll go to my Mom’s near Williamsport then head to SC.

Like Tailgate just posted, it all depends on when the services are . . . .

OK westboro baptist church is really anything but...

If you look at their membership, its 80% lawyers… and they have been known to be lawsuit happy… so dont attack em… in front of witnesses…

I hate everything about these guys, especially since they picketed their first soldiers funeral..

This is true

They pretty much invite people to attack them so they can file lawsuits.

If they picket this, they’re going to need personal police guards. Because there may be literally tens (maybe hundreds) of thousands of people at this. There’s a good chance they won’t be able to file a lawsuit if a group gets fed up with their shit.

You're exactly right

I was half-venting over my disgust for these people. We’ve (military) had alot of dealings with them showing up at funerals of our wartime KIAs, claiming God took them because there are gays in military. Sheer lunacy, but they are very savvy when it comes to their legal rights. They are better shamed than smacked.

they are the KKK under a different name
If I remember correctly,

The last time Westboro said they were going to picket in central PA was the funeral for the Amish children who died. They ended up not protesting, mainly due to threats on their lives from people in the area. I’m not suggesting anyone do this, but something tells me they won’t end up protesting this one either.

Funny how righteous resolve breaks down in the face of honor
They said they were going to protest at the Nebraska game.

But I don’t think they did.

This
Westboro seems to be made up of bigoted haters who do NOT represent Christ’s love and compassion

.any relationship between Westboro and Christian compassion is purely accidental as seems to happen with extremists who base their beliefs on fear and hatred – an extreme contradiction in conscience that is Fundamentally flawed and fraudulent.

If you want to galvanize support for the object of a protest the Phelps family is the obvious choice.

Westboro Baptist ain't gonna do shit!!!

They were supposed to be at the Nebraska game and weren’t.

If they show up for Joe’s funeral, I’ll be there with railroad spikes and chains.

Guaranteed.

the only reason they have "church" in their title is for the tax benefits

and KKK, Skinheads and Nazi’s were already taken

If the service

is on Friday night/Saturday, I’m heading to State College.

A lot of will.
Good night, and God bless all.

May He give us peace in the midst of all this turmoil.

wearing white shirt and blue tie to work tomorrow

… a small tribute to our beloved joepa

Thank you Chris

Beautifully said

I teared up while reading this.

Couldn’t have been more eloquently put, thank you for this post.

truely a sad day

he was a great man and a great role model. I don’t think I ever expected this day to come.

Here's what Bielema and Alvarez had to say.
Statement from Wisconsin Director of Athletics Barry Alvarez:
“Today is a sad day. Joe made a difference. He impacted a lot of people. He made a difference in a community, in a college and in college football. He was truly special and an icon. For someone to continue to do what he did through different generations and for such a long period of time and be effective was amazing. I’ve considered Joe a friend and a mentor. This is sad day for college football and the Penn State community. Our thoughts and prayers go out to them and the Paterno family.”

Statement from Wisconsin head football coach Bret Bielema:
“Coach Paterno obviously did so many wonderful things for a number of years, not only with the success of his teams on the field but the number of lives he shaped. I hope people remember his lifetime achievements. From day one, when I joined the head coaching ranks and was fortunate enough to cross paths with him at coaches meetings and various functions, he was always very engaging and complimentary of the way we did things at Wisconsin and how we played. I enjoyed competing with him at every level. Our Badger football family sends our condolences and deepest sympathies to the Penn State community and the Paterno family.”
Hardest Monday morning in a long time...

I couldn’t get away with wearing Penn State apparel to work today (I’d be fired), so I’m doing the next best thing I can do and have on a Penn State blue shirt and a blue and white tie.

Damnit, I can’t even imagine what opening day in 2012 is going to be like, after the Board and media realize how screwed up they’ve been and the rest of us see the team come onto the field for the first time.

Joe’d hate it, because he never sought glory, but I hope Penn State either does a black shoes logo on the field or has an actual pair of black shoes on the sideline where Joe will always be.

first time ever alternate uniforms: all black
Even though the black unis would be awesome.

That day should be a happy day. That’s our opportunity to show that the legacy lives on.

Such a sad final chapter

I had the fortune of meeting Joe years ago. I was a huge fan of his, reading everything I could get my hands on about him. I learned about him from my Dad and he used to tell me that this Coach did things the right way. I was only around 8 years old & I really didn’t know what he meant by that .I was a big fan of #22 John C. As time went by I finally understood what my Dad meant. I got into coaching hs football because I wanted to give something back and to be like Joe. The 1st couple of times I met him I was so dam scarred. He wasn’t the soft quiet nice guy I thought he was but that was how he was on the practice field. It was his office and I quickly learned that he had another side. He was recruiting one of my players one year and I had the opportunity to talk about 10-15 minutes with him one on one when the player was called to my office on the PA. Typical Joe, he wanted to wait until the period was over smh. He was an amazing man, we talked about a lot of stuff he was so smart so knowledgable on so may topics. He also had a good sense of humor too. I know I am rambling on but I am holding back tears. Joe was not a saint, he made mistakes, he did things wrong sometimes but he was as good a man as I have ever had the opportunity to meet. He did so much for so many people. It’s a shame what happened with the scandal, the media couldn’t wait to try and destroy an icon and make names for themselves. It’s also a shame the way the school handled him as well. He did so much good for them and to be treated like that- sad. There is no doubt members of that board had vendettas against him and saw the opportunity to strike back. Sorry to ramble it was not my purpose to say negative things but to say goodbye to Joe. RIP Coach Joe, my sympaties to the family and Sue.

Stunningly ...

…Gorgeous tribute Chris.

Lost productivity

I’d love to see research on how much productivity Penn State alums have lost at work over the last 2+ months.

A lot

the day after they fired joe and really the whole week after the scandal I couldn’t do anything at work. Of course, thats assuming I did anything to begin with.

Yeah, I had a really hard time that week.

I’m not accomplishing much today either. I’m just reading everything at Black Shoes Diaries and then switching to reading some Orioles stuff when I need to be cheered up (when the Orioles cheer you up, you know you’re in a bad place).

We're all lucky to still have jobs!
More true than you know

I had rearranged my cube so that I could see the entrance to my cube and my computer at the same time right around Nov 2 or 3, It needed to be cleaned and it’s been the same for 2 years, on the 4th I found out my co-worker was being let go for “budgetary concerns”. Then it happened and I spent all day checking twitter/BSD on Monday and most of Tuesday trying to keep up. On Wednesday I found a little sticky note that said something along the lines of “Did you rearrange your cube to try to hide the fact that you browse the internet instead of doing work?”

Well, I was certainly shitting my pants. Thankfully it wasn’t my manager. I never figured out who it was, but he never mentioned it in an informal chat about my co-worker so I’m pretty sure it was just another cube-jockey with terrible timing for a little jab.

For me?

All of it.

I’ve been waaaay distracted.

I'd be afraid to find out.

I know mine has taken a more than healthy hit.

RIP Joe

Thank you for all you did for the Penn State family.

Thank you BSD Family

It’s Monday morning here in LA, CA, and it’s raining hard, not quite the “white out” tribute that I saw last night in State College, but nonetheless fitting for the types of weather we get here in CA. Heaven gained a legend, but us mortals are still crying in anguish for loss of a great man.

I’m trying to get through my work emails, but I keep breaking down. I wish others around me knew how I feel, but if I try to explain what JoePa meant to me and my family, they would think I am a fanatic. That’s why at a time like this, I’m especially grateful for my BSD family.

Public Memorial Service Announced

http://www.centredaily.com/2012/01/23/3063215/funeral-arrangements-for-joe-paterno.html

Darn

was hoping for Saturday. will need to juggle some things now.

Not ideal is it?

And we’re definitley not going to fit. Do you think public pressure will make them open the stadium? I’ll go shovel it, if that’s the problem.

Gotta think

the family didn’t wanna wait until Saturday because they want to get it all over and done with as soon as possible. I know that’s how it was with my grandmother and great grandfather. To ask Sue and the rest of the family to wait until SAturday would be hard.

Schedule conflicts at BJC for full weekend. No doubt why the date.

Just gracious of the family to have a service open to the public.

Chris's post and this message board are the only things I have read about Joe since the news broke.

And it is all that I probably will read or listen to. Praise from people who only recently were tearing him down will simply cause deep anger, and that’s an emotion I do not want to feel right now. I have “known” Joe Paterno for more than four decades, first as a student and then as an alumni and fan. I do not need television retrospectives or bloviated articles from people who collectively have not benefited the world to the extent that Joe did, in order to help me know and understand Joe Paterno.

I already know. I already understand. We all do.

Dammit. I’m crying . . . again.

Nice job and thank you

I wanted to thank everyone who posts to this site. Sometimes I feel that it “talks me down from the ledge”. I was born and raised PSU – my family is 4 generations PSU, parents married on campus, 5 siblings are penn staters…and there’s more. I feel like i have been walking around in a dark haze the last couple months, but especially the last day. But every post reminds me that I am not alone. Of course I already knew this being a Penn Stater but you get my point right?! WE will get through this and WE will rebuild for WE ARE PENN STATE!!

Bad Week

My 85 year old Grandpa just passed on today under similar circumstances while fighting cancer. Sad week.

Very sorry to hear that BB4PSU

That’s more grief than any person should carry in one week. Hang in there, and prayers for you and your family.

My condolensces

I hope you’re able to find some measure of peace in these days

Media, Trustees, and Chemo responsible for JoePa's death

After the presstitutes crucified Paterno, the spineless board of trustees kicked him to the curb, then the quack doctors that make a living selling IV mustard gas derived poison to cancer patients, finished him off. Stress, loss of his life’s mission (PSU football), and cancer remedies that only enrich witch doctors, and kill patients, did in one of college football’s. legendary coaches. Like I stated before, the board of trustees, and media wh*res should be held accountable. PSU belongs to the students, and I believe that it was their decision to make about their football coach. The spirit of Joe Paterno lives on, with the student body of Penn State.

Easy there chief

Unless you know details of his treatment, you shouldn’t be accusing somebody of malpractice or murder. That would be a bit like accusing people of knowing about a child molester when there is no evidence that they did. Not ok.

I’m sure Joe was under a lot of stress and that certainly doesn’t help one’s health. But he did not die of a broken heart. He died of complications from lung cancer.

All people die. It’s a fact of life. Cancer kills a lot of people regardless of how hard they fight it. Modern medicine also cures a lot of people. The outcome’s are determined by thousands of variables, most of which are outside the patient’s or doctors’ control. Many of the variables are still poorly understood. That’s why we should give to THON.

Cancer kills alot of people, because they dohn't want to cure it

Cancer is curable, but the FDA has blocked therapies and treatments because they do not profit big pharma. Doctors main just treat symptoms, profiting off of illness. Just google the work of Royal Rife, who cured cancer with electromagnetic frequencies. He was sued by the head of the FDA, and his equipment was confiscated. And there are others, like Jason Vale who cured his cancer with apricot seeds, also placed in prison for 5 years for selling seeds on the internet.
The only variables that are poorly understood is a gullible American public that has been donating money for 50 or more years to groups like the American Cancer Society, only to watch their relatives die from cancer, with lame excuses given. If you did your research, reed john miller, you would know what you are talking about. Why don’t you start with a google search on those who worked in the cancer industry, discussing how much of a profit making business it is to them, and why they don’t wnt any cancer cures. WAKE UP!.

Sorry, not buying it

You’re barking up the wrong tree. I’ve covered FDA and write about medicine for a living. I’ve published tons of articles on the medical device and drug industry. I’ve been to countless medical meetings and FDA panels.

Cancer is not my specialty but I’m not some gullible sap. Don’t talk down to me.

Your conspiracy theories hold no water. Show me the science behind your apricot seed hypothesis and I’ll be happy to have an open mind about it. But if there’s no science – and i suspect there isn’t. One guy’s anecdote isn’t science – I’m happy to see charlatans selling false hope and snake oil go to jail.

Nobody trusts the pharma industry less than me. A lot of them would sell crack to kids if they could get away with it. But you’re making a common mistake. The pharma companies aren’t frauds. They’re more like extortionists or kidnappers. They have something that people need badly and can charge a fortune for it. That doesn’t mean it doesn’t work.

And FDA is unfairly maligned. I know a lot of those people. They’re good people working absurd hours for relatively low wages. If they don’t ask for enough clinical proof, the drugs will kill somebody and they get blamed. If they ask for a lot, the companies team up with the patient groups and accuse them of obstruction. They can’t please everyone do they do their best.

I’ll stop. I’ve heard all of this shit before. Try selling it somewhere else.

Sorry

“Nobody trusts the pharma industry less than I do.”

Grammar!!

Thank you for correcting your grammar

The SASHS English dept would be proud. :)

The electromagnetic frequency cure has been debunked.

And selling anything as a cure for cancer – without studies to back up the claim – is going to land you in hot water.

Electromagnetic Frequencies!!!

Are you a hot, single lady?

PhD in Biochemistry

but I don’t need that to debunk you. The fact that you think cancer is one disease curable by one method is all I need to know that you don’t understand what you are talking about.

\biochemisted
or \commonsensed
YAY for Smart People!

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